Philemon reminds me of the expression, “caught red-handed”. That is, found in the very act of mayhem, with the victim’s blood on your hands. This one-chapter book personifies the meaning of redemption. Today’s lesson is about changing hearts. The apostle Paul is writing from a Roman prison cell to Philemon, his “dear friend and fellow worker”. Paul calls himself, “a prisoner of Christ Jesus”. It is significant that he continues to see himself as God’s instrument regardless of circumstances. He begins with his customary blessing, “Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ”. At a time when most would be wallowing in self-pity, Paul gushes with joy, “I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers”. Oh, that we would produce joy in the hearts of those that pray for us! Paul explains, “because I hear about your love for all His holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus”. It is very important to understand that Jesus gave a new command to His disciples, “to love one another”. He specifically adds, “By this everyone will know that you are My disciples” (John 13:34). The church includes people of every nation and culture, but there is a unique bond between all believers. We obey Christ by blessing His followers. Paul adds, “Your love has given me great joy and encouragement”. Philemon’s faith was put into action. Notice that Paul stresses that he “refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people”.
Paul transitions to the main purpose of his letter. “I appeal to you on the basis of love… for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains”. We learn that Onesimus was a runaway slave. It is likely Onesimus also stole from Philemon to make his escape. Onesimus was apparently arrested in Rome. While in prison, Paul taught him the Gospel and personally observed the outward change in Onesimus after accepting Christ. “I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you”. Onesimus began to minister to Paul, just as Philemon had done in the past. “I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel”. Paul does not command Philemon to forgive, instead, Paul desires the Holy Spirit to work in his heart. We cannot force another person to change through decree. Renewal requires an internal change. This kind of personal conviction is similarly described by Paul regarding charitable giving, “decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion” (2 Corinthians 9:7).
Paul testifies that Onesimus has been born again. His actions reflect the change. “Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me”. Please understand, there cannot be redemption without repentance. Paul knew that under Roman Law, he could not grant Onesimus his freedom. Paul became his advocate. “If you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me”. He continues with his plea to receive Onesimus “no longer as a slave, but better than a slave… as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord”. Paul acknowledges Onesimus is guilty. Nonetheless, he is asking Philemon to forgive this fully redeemed man. Paul is so fully committed, that he offers to cover the cost of the burden. “If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me”. This is an illustration of grace. Paul is willing to pay the debt on behalf of Onesimus. Paul also reminds Philemon that he too received the same gift of grace; “you owe me your very self”. Finally, he asks Philemon to, “refresh my heart in Christ”. Paul concludes with confidence, “I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask”. Those of us that have received God’s forgiveness understand mercy. Friend, are you in need of a change?